Where are you from originally and how long have you lived in Houston?
I was born in Houston, spent my childhood in Liberty (my father’s hometown), and then returned to Houston.
Child(ren) and Age(s)?
We have a beautiful, blended family of 4! Jordan (21), Jade (19), Peyton (16), Tate (14)
One thing people would be surprised to know about you…
One thing people would be surprised to know about me is that I’m super into music and art! I love discovering new musicians and new artists!
Favorite local activities to do in Houston?
My favorite local activities in Houston include going to art openings, practicing yoga, attending theater performances, and enjoying all the amazing new restaurants!
Are you involved in a business venture, a local organization, a creative endeavor, or in the corporate world? Please share!
I am a psychotherapist, high-performance coach, sexologist, writer, speaker, host of REDHEADREVEAL® podcast, and private practice owner of Pinkerton Psychotherapy. I am a connection expert with a focus on relationships and attachment wounds. Keep an eye out for my new book launching in 2025!
How has the Houston community been instrumental in getting you to where you are now?
I love Houston and all the dynamic people in it. The Houston community, especially within Memorial, has been instrumental in my success by providing unwavering support, which has allowed me to build a successful business and following.
What is the best advice for juggling mommyhood and running a business (or volunteering, working, etc)?
The best advice for juggling motherhood and running a business (or volunteering, working, etc.) is to prioritize life balance and self-care. Understanding the importance of nurturing yourself instead of numbing is crucial. However, the secret lies in setting clear boundaries, allowing you to focus on and prioritize what is most important, such as family.
What would you tell the old “You” before you had kids?
I would tell my old self to do more emotional work before becoming a mom. I now understand the extreme importance of validation, attunement, and curiosity, and I wish I had focused on these aspects more when my kids were little. Now, as teens and adults, they benefit from all the extra attention and understanding I can give them!
Funniest shortcut/routine for helping you through parenthood?
As a super creative person, I found that engaging my girls in painting, writing, and putting on plays was a great way to navigate parenthood. These activities provided a creative focus and kept them entertained without resorting to plopping them in front of the TV when they were bored.
